URGENT: SOME THINGS DO CHANGE.

I'm feeling philosophical today.
Sometimes things change....and not through lack of effort. But people fade and drift apart...or just can't be bothered. So actually I suppose that is a lack of effort. Either way it might be deliberate or it might just be because these things happen and it's nobody's fault.
My problem is the owning up to it....do you want to rock the status quo (a mixed metaphor I know) or hope that in time things get fixed.
I'm not really talking about anything in particular. Even if I was anyone that had let things slide probably wouldn't have noticed, or it wouldn't have slid in the first place.

Does that make sense??

I think what i'm really trying to say is that if something is really important to someone then some effort has to be put in to keep it on the right track. If it's not then it should be recognised and admitted to. Don't you think?

Not to lower the tone or anything, but I heard on the t.v a quote that might be applicable in general terms.

"Sex is like icing a cake, you have to bloody well concentrate"

Now i'm not talking about sex in this little message of mine, but apart from the specifics the principle remains the same in my opinion.

In life you have to concentrate...especially with the important stuff. If you value it, pay attention. Or as with icing a cake you can end up with areas not covered or even a big drippy mess!

If this had struck a chord with anyone reading this, even in a general way, for the sake of those close to you, please: Take a breath, think on what you should be doing, saying or feeling....and react!!!
Because if you don't, if things are left to just slide away...well, what you're left with, is not much.